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'A sharp but sensitive exploration of the pitfalls of masculinity' - Jeffrey Boakye
'A wake up call to men' - JJ Bola
'Wasn't it time to pull apart what makes us men - to find some answers for myself, and perhaps for others too?'In this searingly honest book we join Martin Robinson - magazine journalist and founder of men's media site The Book of Man - on a journey into the chaos of modern masculinity. Along the way, Martin visits mental health groups and prisons, talks to sex activists, evolutionary psychologists and musicians, works out with Special Forces soldiers, watches cage fights, has a drag make-over and subjects himself to an 'intimacy jam' - all in his quest to unpeel the onion-like layers that make up the modern man. And yes, tears are shed. Not cool, solitary tears either.
Reflecting on his reporting and discussions with experts, Martin also examines some of the most pressing concerns facing men today, including violence, suicide and the spectre of toxic masculinity. He explores how men are defining themselves beyond traditional male stereotypes; whether they can learn to expand the limits of what society expects; how to combat the male mental health epidemic; and why men need a new blueprint to live by in a society transformed by the Digital Age, new attitudes in gender relations and a global pandemic.
Crammed full of interviews with the likes of Jason Fox from
SAS: Who Dares Wins, Jason Williamson of Sleaford Mods, musician Professor Green, authors Poorna Bell and Thomas Page McBee, poet Derek Owusu and Olympic gold-winning boxer Luke Campbell MBE,
You Are Not the Man You Are Supposed to Be portrays a nation of men struggling to make sense of this strange new world, ultimately seeking out powerful new ways for them to be.
Inhaltsverzeichnis
Prologue1 You Are In Control: Mental Health and Masculinity
2 You Are One of the Lads: Tribalism and Masculinity
3 You Are Hard: Violence, Environment, Power
4 You Are Ripped: Fitness, Physical Heroes and the Body
5 You Are Straight: Sexuality, Women and the Other
6 You Are the Breadwinner: Home, Fatherhood, Impact
7 You Are a Man: Fear, Insanity, Visibility and the Future
Acknowledgements
Über den Autor / die Autorin
Martin Robinson is the Editor and Founder of The Book of Man, a website aiming to support male mental health and well-being, and explore new forms of masculinity. He appears regularly on panels, podcasts and radio to discuss his work. Prior to founding the site, Martin worked in men’s and music magazines for 17 years. He lives with his two children and partner in South London.
Zusammenfassung
'A sharp but sensitive exploration of the pitfalls of masculinity' - Jeffrey Boakye
'A wake up call to men' - JJ Bola
In this searingly honest book we join Martin Robinson - magazine journalist and founder of men's media site The Book of Man - on a journey into the chaos of modern masculinity. Along the way, Martin visits mental health groups and prisons, talks to sex activists, evolutionary psychologists and musicians, works out with Special Forces soldiers, watches cage fights, has a drag make-over and subjects himself to an 'intimacy jam' - all in his quest to unpeel the onion-like layers that make up the modern man. And yes, tears are shed. Not cool, solitary tears either.
Reflecting on his reporting and discussions with experts, Martin also examines some of the most pressing concerns facing men today, including violence, suicide and the spectre of toxic masculinity. He explores how men are defining themselves beyond traditional male stereotypes; whether they can learn to expand the limits of what society expects; how to combat the male mental health epidemic; and why men need a new blueprint to live by in a society transformed by the Digital Age, new attitudes in gender relations and a global pandemic.
Crammed full of interviews with the likes of Jason Fox from SAS: Who Dares Wins, Jason Williamson of Sleaford Mods, musician Professor Green, authors Poorna Bell and Thomas Page McBee, poet Derek Owusu and Olympic gold-winning boxer Luke Campbell MBE, You Are Not the Man You Are Supposed to Be portrays a nation of men struggling to make sense of this strange new world, ultimately seeking out powerful new ways for them to be.
Vorwort
The Book of Man founder and editor Martin Robinson sets out on a quest to explore the state of modern masculinity.
Zusatztext
Masculinity is under the microscope like never before. Good. It's not in crisis, but it is changing. Books like this show why.
