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Informationen zum Autor Ruth E. Ray Klappentext In the summer of 1996! Ruth Ray! a gerontologist in her forties! befriended an eighty-two-year-old man suffering from Parkinson's. The two remained close until the end of his life! sharing stories and memories while building a deep relationship. Part memoir! part biography! Endnotes explores how people construct meaning through their interactions with others. With grace and wit! Ray situates her friend's past experiences and present relationships within the theories and literature of gerontology! providing a deeper understanding of autonomy at the end of life. She also delves into the complexities of sexuality and intimacy in old age! communication across disabilities and age groups! the disabling nature of nursing homes! and the trials of death and dying. Writing as both a woman and a gerontologist! Ray finds that the "quality of care" we provide for others requires not only an understanding of the relationships that have given a person's life meaning but also a willingness to accept and share deeply in the emotional process of physical and mental decline. Zusammenfassung Illustrates how the 'meaning' of peoples' lives is constructed in their interactions with others! from childhood through old age. This book sheds light on the negotiation of sexuality and intimacy in old age! communication across disabilities and age groups! the disabling nature of nursing homes! and the experience of death and dying. Inhaltsverzeichnis Preface1. Passionate Scholarship2. Home3. Making Ourselves Understood4. New Year's Eve5. A Lamentable Situation6. Those Little Ordinary Things7. Passion's Progress8. Activities9. Diaper Is a Dirty Word10. Care Conference11. Empty Rooms12. Ethics of CareEpilogueAcknowledgments