Bye Bye I Love You - The Story of Our First and Last Words

A beautiful and intimate exploration of first and last words—and the many facets of how language begins and ends—from a pioneering language writer.


With our earliest utterances, we announce ourselves—and are recognized—as persons ready for social life. With our final ones, we mark where others must release us to death’s embrace. In
What do babies’ first words have in common? How do people really communicate at the end of life? In the first half of the book, Erard tells the story of first words in human development and evolution, and how the attention to children’s early language—a modern phenomenon—arose. In the second half, he provides a ground-breaking overview of language at the end of life and the cultural conventions that surround it. Throughout he reveals the many parallels and asymmetries between first and last words and asks whether we might be able to use a linguistic understanding of end of life to discover what we truly want.

Product details

• Authors: Michael Erard, Erard Michael
• Publisher: The MIT Press
• Languages: English
• Product format: Hardback
• Released: 11.02.2025
• EAN: 9780262049429
• ISBN: 978-0-262-04942-9
• No. of pages: 344
• Dimensions: 159 mm x 235 mm x 33 mm
• Subjects: Humanities, art, music > Linguistics and literary studies > General and comparative linguistics; SOCIAL SCIENCE / Death & Dying, Society & culture: general, LANGUAGE ARTS & DISCIPLINES / Communication Studies, Sociology: death and dying