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A humorous and insightful look at early dating rituals, marriage and social conventions. Hints for Lovers, by Arnold Haultain, is a relationship guide exploring gender and power dynamics during the early twentieth century. Published in 1909 as a limited edition, the book sheds light on both formal and informal practices.
About the author
Arnold Haultain (1857–1941) was a British writer who produced a diverse catalog of books and essays covering sports, romance and war. Although born in India, Haultain spent his formative years in England and later, Canada where he attended the University of Toronto. Over the course of his career, he wrote more than 30 books including The Mystery of Golf (1908) followed by Hints for Lovers (1909). Haultain’s work was also featured in multiple magazines across North America and Europe.
Summary
Hints for Lovers explores the romantic rules of engagement by providing a detailed strategy to help readers successfully navigate and improve their own personal relationships. It offers a light-hearted take on how to find and maintain love in any era.
The author frequently examines the fundamental differences between men and women and how they inform romantic expression. He dives into the psychology of relationships as well as the impact of intimacy such as kissing and making love. It’s a comprehensive analysis of courtship that ranges from dating to engagement and ultimately, marriage.
Published in 1909, Hints for Lovers is greatly influenced by the social constructs of the early twentieth century. The tongue-in-cheek anecdotes consist of many dating principles that are still relevant today. Arnold Haultain’s playful point of view makes for an entertaining and delightful read.
With an eye-catching new cover, and professionally typeset manuscript, this edition of Hints for Lovers is both modern and readable.
