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Modern life is full of minor but acute dilemmas: wishing to end a boring conversation without causing offence; forgetting a name when introducing friends; running into an ex on a first date with a new partner...
Though they might seem insignificant, such dilemmas illustrate some of the greatest themes in social existence; how to pursue our own happiness while honoring the sensitivities of others; how to convey goodwill with sincerity; and how to be kind without being supine or sentimental.
This book puts good manners back at the center of our lives. Through twenty case studies, Modern Manners provides a new philosophy of graceful conduct. Far from trivial diversions, manners are the practical expression of a dignified mission to create a kinder and more considerate world.
List of contents
Introduction
1. How to tell when you are being a bore
2. How to write an effective thank you letter
3. How to choose a good present
4. How to approach strangers at a party
5. What to do at parties if you hate small talk
6. How to shake someone off at a party
7.How to win people over
8. Whether, and how much, to praise
9. How to successfully disappoint someone socially
10. How to be comfortable on your own in public
11. How to deal with upsets in service situations
12. How to become someone people will confide in
13. How to talk to a bereaved acquaintance
14. How to spill a drink down your front - and survive
15. How to deal with the subtext
16. How to stop worrying whether or not they like you
17. How to be a good guest
18. How to tell someone they have spinach between their teeth
19. How to make people feel good about themselves
20. How to face social catastrophe
About the author
The School of Life is a global organisation helping people to lead more fulfilled lives. We do this via our articles, books, app, films, therapeutic services and corporate offering.
The School of Life Press brings together the thinking and ideas of the School of Life creative team under the direction of series editor, Alain de Botton. Our range of books and products explore essential topics in psychological and emotional life, including relationships, parenting, friendship, careers and fulfilment.
