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Learn how to stop the cycle of abusive behavior and make parenting fun again.
List of contents
CONTENTS
Acknowledgments
Introduction
1 Escape the Suffering Parents Club
2 What Happened to My Sweet, Adorable Child?
3 How We Become Our Kids' Victims—and Strategies to Prevent Parent Burnout
4 Understanding Your Kid's Bullying Behavior Style
5 Your Parenting Style—and How Good Parents Fall into Bad Habits
6 Tools to Give You Both Just the Right Amount of Power
7 How to Assemble Your Anti-Bullying Support Team
8 Navigating the Seven Parenting Crises That Can Trigger Bullying
Index
About the Author
About the author
SEAN GROVER, LCSW, has worked in child development and adult psychotherapy for 20 years, and maintains one of the largest private group therapy practices in the U.S. He has been quoted in Newsweek, New York Magazine, NPR, and elsewhere about parent-child relationships.
Summary
If you want to fix your rebellious and disrespectful child, you need to start by fixing yourself.
Are your kids pummeling you with demands and bossing you around with impunity? Have your once-precious preschoolers become rebellious, entitled, and disrespectful to authority? While there are plenty of so-called experts who might try to validate your convictions that you have done all you can to “fix” your “difficult” children, the hard truth is, they’re not doing you any favors by placing the responsibility solely on your children. Parenting struggles rarely originate from just one side. Instead, they erupt at the volatile intersection of a child's personality with a parent's own insecurities and behaviors.
In When Kids Call the Shots, therapist and parenting expert Sean Grover untangles the forces driving family dysfunction, and helps parents assume their leadership roles once again. Parents will discover:
- Three common bullying styles used by kids
- Parenting styles that contribute to power balances
- Critical testing periods in a child’s development
- Coping mechanisms that backfire
- Personalized plans for calmly exerting authority in any scenario
The solution to any problem begins with learning to control what you can control. In parenting, you’ve already learned how impossible it is to control your kids. Begin by controlling you!
