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Zusatztext "Out of her vast experience as Cantor and educator! Leneman has written an important guide that strengthens and solidifies the family through the wisdom and warmth of Judaism." - Rabbi Harold Schulweis ! Valley Beth Shalom! Encino! California "Inspires! challenges! comforts and guides parents as the mutli-faceted bar/bat mitzvah process enters their lives." - Dr. Jeffrey Schein ! National Education Director! Jewish Reconstructionist Federation Informationen zum Autor Cantor Helen Leneman's specialty is bar/bat mitzvah education. She has worked as a cantor and a b'nai mitzvah teacher in Los Angeles, Baltimore and the greater Washington, DC, area. For several years she chaired the B'nai Mitzvah Educators Network of CAJE. The Network has over 300 members in the U.S. and abroad. She has a BA from UCLA and an MA in Judaic studies from Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion, and studied cantorial liturgy with cantors Allan Michelson (z"l) and William Sharlin. She is the author of Bar/Bat Mitzvah Education: A Sourcebook. She is an associate member of the American Conference of Cantors, and a member of the Society of Biblical Literature. Cantor Leneman directs an outreach program for unaffiliated families who wish to celebrate their children's becoming bar or bat mitzvah. She lives with her family in Rockville, Maryland. Klappentext A practical "how-to" guide for parents and teens navigating the bar/bat mitzvah process. Everyone directly involved offers practical insights into growing as a family through the experience and making the process easier and more enjoyable for all. Zusammenfassung How to manage the process with grace! joy and good sense. A practical guide that gives parents and teens the "how-to" information they need to navigate the bar/bat mitzvah process and grow as a family through this experience. For the first time in one book! everyone directly involved offers practical insights into how the process can be made easier and more enjoyable for all. Rabbis! cantors and Jewish educators from the Reform! Conservative and Reconstructionist movements! parents! and even teens speak from their own experience. ? What's it all about? ? Preparation for Parent and Child ? Tutoring! stress! expectations! enjoyment! planning for children with special needs ? Negotiating the ceremony and celebration ? Designing a creative service! heightening the spiritual exercise! special issues related to divorced and interfaith families! planning a party that neither breaks the bank nor detracts from the inherent spirituality of the event. Inhaltsverzeichnis Acknowledgments xiii Foreword xv Rabbi Jeffrey K. Salkin Preface xix Rabbi Julie Gordon Introduction xxi Cantor Helen Leneman Section I: What's Bar/Bat Mitzvah All About? 1 1 Bar/Bat Mitzvah Basic Elements: Start to Finish 3 Cantor Helen Leneman 2 What Parents Should Know Before the Bar/Bat Mitzvah Ceremony 15 Susie Tatarka 3 "Passing" the Bar (or Bat) Mitzvah: Setting Clear and Realistic Expectations for Everyone 21 Cantor Marshall Portnoy 4 A Guide for the Perplexed Parent: How to Ask the Right Questions about Preparation 33 Cantor Helen Leneman 5 The Parents' Rite of Passage 43 Rabbi Susan B. Stone 6 Ritual Magic and Family Drama: Finding New Meaning in an Old Story 47 Dr. Judith Davis 7 To a Religiously Skeptical Jewish Parent 57 Rabbi Jeffrey K. Salkin Section II: The Family's Perspective 65 8 Tales from the Home Front: Lessons from Family Experiences 67 Cantor Helen Leneman 9 Reflections of a Mother 77 Missy Cohen Lavintman 10 Reflections of a Father 83 Neal Gendler 11 Post B'nai Mitzvah Thoughts: Teens Reflect 89 Norman Lavintman, Maya Jaffe, Jennifer...
